Thursday, June 13, 2013

20 months

If the length between posts is any indication of life right now, you can see it's been crazy! Work, travel, and twin toddlers have been making for a very fast half a year.

In summary:

April contained a girls weekend in Nashville and a boys weekend in San Fran. May contained a whirlwind work trip to San Fran immediately followed by a much needed family vacation to Myrtle Beach. And so far, June has included a short stint in Raleigh and upcoming trips to Chicago and Vegas. All the while battling ear infections, sinus infections, toddler tantrums, and general exhaustion.

Let's start with April:
Brittany had hopes to go to Nashville... alone. Um, no. So her friend, Michelle, and I piled into her super sweet Jeep and make the trek to the Music City (or whatever it's referred to as). Our hotel was on Vanderbilt's campus and was a really cool part of town. Sort of a hispter, college vibe. I could dig.

We arrived on Friday afternoon and immediately hit the town. We restaurant/bar hopped until we crashed at the wee hours of..... 10:00 PM. Welcome to 30. We got up bright and early Saturday in the hopes of finding some unique shops/restaurants just outside of Vanderbilt. Oh, it was unique all right.... Google Maps- you suck and you're a big, fat liar for telling us the place to be was only 1 mile and a 20 minute WALK away. LIAR! Three miles, one UTI, and one scene out of "8 Mile" later (okay, maybe I'm exaggerating a bit- but, damn was it a sketchy part of town) we arrived at a local library where we called a cab. When the cabbie was like "where are you??" and then "we'll be there in 20 minutes," we decided to test our luck a bit more and just walk the rest of the way. The clincher? WE HAD A CAR THE WHOLE TIME. Google Maps, I seriously SERIOUSLY hate you. Anyway, the shops were super cute, the restaurant served Jeni's and we cabbed it back to the hotel. The end.

That night we went Downtown to music row and I have to say, I much preferred the Vanderbilt bars. Maybe it was the exhaustion from the half marathon I'd walked that morning, or maybe I'm just not a country music fan, but either way, if I went back again, I'd stick to Vanderbilt and call it a day. All in all, it was really great spending time with Brittany. We so rarely get to these days and it was also nice to experience a new city and have some "adventures."

May: 
May was a bit nuts. I found out last minute that I was to attend a meeting in San Fran. And not just any meeting. A meeting with my boss, his boss, his boss, his boss, and his boss.... Um yeah. Talk about nerves. It was, without question, the single-most important and high-profile meeting I've ever attended. I will say that at dinner that night as the only female in a room with about 20 men, when the President of my division said I had "moxie," I officially considered the meeting a success. Now, I just hope to god I don't have to do that ever. ever. EVER. again.

I traveled out to San Fran on a Weds, met up with Ryan and had dinner, had "the meeting" on Thursday and was home by 2:00 PM on Friday in time for a work happy hour. The next day we attended a 1st b-day party for the cutest twin boys we know and then hit the road for our family vacation to Myrtle Sunday morning at 4:30 am. How I can recall any details from that week is beyond me...

Myrtle was just what I needed. It helped "reset" me and was so nice to have no agenda and no due dates. And if you're ever looking for a way to feel completely spoiled, try heading to the spa while on vacation. I almost felt guilty for being so spoiled...almost. The girls had a blast. Ellie enjoyed eating the sand while Char enjoyed collecting sea shells (except for the sea shell that was still attached to a live hermit crab- yikes!). The weather was a bit unseasonably cold (seems to be a theme for me this year) so we had to find non-pool fun to keep us occupied. This meant a trip to the Ripley's Aquarium, a minor league baseball game, and a trip to an Easton-like mall. Aside from the morning we left to head home*, it was a pretty calm, relaxed week.      

* The following all occurred before 12:00 PM: broken mason jar filled will collected sea shells (excluding the hermit crab- he stayed home); emptied bottle of lemonade on carpet/tile that turned into a toddler splash pad; loose-poop filled used swim dipe immediately followed by a bath; Dawn dishwashing soap in.... the dishwasher (thanks, husband)- all while attempting to pack a family of four and load the car before check out.


June: 
Seriously, it's June?! This month is all but over for me. I just got back from a day trip to Raleigh and am heading to Chicago next Monday-Thursday for a strategy meeting. Then I'm heading to Vegas for our annual trade show the following Thursday-Sunday. At some point in there I'm throwing a bridal shower and attempting to sleep... we'll see about the latter. The good news is, once I return from Vegas, I have no work travel planned until early October- and I'll try my darnedest to keep it that way!

And now for the important stuff: 

How old are babies: Almost 21 months!
How much do they weigh: Char 22; Ellie 26?
How long are they: Ellie is still a bit taller
Clothes: 18-24 for Char; 2T for Ellie. 

Diapers: Size 4, day and night. Charlotte told daddy that she "poopied" the other day. I wonder if this is the start of an interested pottier? Or maybe that's just wishful thinking...  

What are they eating: There is plenty of cheese consumed in my house. The girls love Mac & Cheese Please, cheese cubes, grilled cheese and any other cheese concoction. They're also big into fruits. Char can't get enough! They like chicken nuggets (or maybe the ketchup they're dipped in), depending on the day they'll eat lunch meat, and they still love avocado. Char enjoys eating salads with Mommy- particularly mac salad. But she'll eat a garden salad too. That's my girl! They love ravioli and lasagna right now and even eat Chipotle from time-to-time. They love eating yogurt and ice cream, but only if they can feed themselves from their own bowls. Big girls!  

How are they sleeping: Char was battling an ear infection for three rounds of antibiotics. Now that that's finally cleared up, she's been sleeping a bit better. We were noticing last night how different of sleepers they both are. Ellie now sleeps with a full-sized pillow.... and a small one... and another big one.... and her lovie... and her squirrel, Swarley... and her raccoon, Rico.... and her fox, Michael J.... and her magnifying glass (yes)... and her sippy cup... and her thin blanket (the thin one. not the thick one. how dare you even offer  the thick one.)... and her Elmo book. And Charlotte? Charlotte sleeps with Charlotte. Not one other thing. I just love them. 

Milestones: Now that they are older and are really just developing cognitively more than anything, I don't feel like there are any major milestones to speak of. I'll highlight their increasing vocab below. One thing that has changed is their ability to climb up and down the stairs with ease. Many times I'll even walk away and let them tackle them on their own. They're actually pretty careful in how they approach the stairs. Up next.... removing the baby gates. Can you even imagine?!  

Major events: We moved schools at the beginning of the month. We'd always intended to move the girls to NA and the director notified us that there were a couple openings, so we took them. It's a bit more expensive each month, but it's way closer to home/work and we know the director, personally and that goes a long way. 

Appearances: They're both a little sun-kissed these days and their hair is lightening up too. Char sports a pony tail every day and I pull her bangs back with a bitty hair clip. Ellie doesn't exactly love her hair being played with, so we stick with half/up to keep her hair out of her eyes. She's so cute when it's down to watch her push it out of her face like a little person. 

Personalities: So... yeah... toddlers, man. Phew. Wowza. Ellie is most certainly Alpha Twin. She is very sure of what she wants and how she wants it, unfortunately for all of us, she can't always articulate that. Char is very laid back and is super easy breezy. Sometimes she'll attempt to be fussy but it's so fake you can't help but just smile and give her a big kiss. They are both loving Elmo these days. Everything is "Elmo?" "Elmo?" I even have to fast forward saved episodes to the parts where Elmo appears. The funny thing is they have an Elmo stuffed animal and kinda want nothing to do with him. Anyway, it's pretty adorable to sit and watch Sesame Street with them and watch them dance in their seats to the Elmo's World theme song. Whoever doesn't recommend TV until two has clearly never seen their child's face light up at the sight of a furry, red monster appearing on screen... 
 

Words: Get down, thank you, Mommy, Dada, Pappy (they struggle with Grammy for some reason), Mimi, Grandpa (pawpa), MurMur, uh-oh, cracker, Big Bird, Elmo, Oscar, Ernie, Bert, Amber, Brittany (nitney), Ellie, CharChar, Sissy, more, uppa, owl, no, yes, please, I love you, cookie, ice cream, milk, wa-wa... (They'll really attempt anything you ask them to. Some words are just clearer than others); Animal noises- dog, cat, fish, cow, snake, monkey, lion, owl, elephant. "Cat" = "Meow," "Dog" = "MurMur" 

Mom and Dad update: I sort of covered my updates earlier. Chris has been kind of status quo. His job has been fairly regular lately and softball started back up. My brother became a Boozer this year and from what I hear seems to be enjoying it.

Next doctor visit: ??
     

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

17 months

{17 months}


Remember these girls?!
{30 weeks}


How old are babies: 17 months (for about three more hours, at least)  

How much do they weigh: I really have no idea. I'll guess 24 and 20 lbs.  

How long are they: Ellie is a smidge taller than Char. Again- no clue how tall they actually are. Mother of the year over here...  

Clothes: 12-18 pants are a bit too short on Charlotte and depending on the brand, 18-24 are a bit too snug on Ellie. Big girls.  

Diapers: Size 4, day and night.  

What are they eating: My girls are officially picky eaters. They typically have waffles or pancakes for breakfast with a banana and milk. Lunch includes a pasta, grilled cheese or sandwich of some sort, a fruit and milk. Dinner is bites of whatever we're having or more lunch items. They are big into snacking these days, so pretzels and cereal are a must. They have milk before bed most nights, unless we ate dinner late, then it's straight to bed.

How are they sleeping: Poor Ellie has incisors coming in so she's had a tough time sleeping. She ended up in bed with us a couple nights ago which hasn't happened since she was wee little. While I hated the lack of sleep I got, I wouldn't trade it for the sleepy toddler that crashed on my chest.  

Milestones:They are really getting into the swing of school. They are pretty adorable at pick up because they immediately go and grab their coats and bags when they see us walk in.  

Major events: The month went by so fast, it's hard to think back about major events. The only thing that comes to mind is that we moved them from taking baths in our bathroom to using their own. It's way smaller and more cramped for me and Chris, but it's pretty exciting to finally use "their" bathroom. Swim lessons also started back up last week. It's so fun to see how much they've changed since this time last year. I am sad that Amber and Jacob aren't in the same class as us this year. Hopefully we can find another way to spend time together on a regular basis.  

Appearances: I can't believe how long Ellie's hair is. It is just days away from fitting completely in a ponytail. Char's is still long in the middle and short on the side. She rocks a half ponytail quite nicely. They are both simply beautiful. I still can't believe I got two little blue-eyed girls.  

Personalities: I'm not going to sugar-coat things.... this age is TOUGH. Like really tough. They have wants but can't verbalize them, they know how to push buttons but don't grasp discipline, and they are down right bullies to one another. I was actually afraid daycare would call CPS on us bc her back had so many welts from Ellie biting her. I think it'll be so much better when the constant whining is replaced with specific requests and they finally listen to "no" and understand the concept of time outs.  

Words: Get down, thank you, mama, dada, uh-oh, cracker (Ellie), Big Bird, Elmo (Ellie), more, uppa; Animal noises- dog, cat, fish, cow, snake, monkey, lion  

Mom and Dad update: We're both pretty exhausted. Work has been draining for both of us. My board meeting is next week and I will be so glad when it's all over. Chris' is finally slowing down a bit as they've hired a new special events manager. It's been nice to have him around more. I feel like this year is full of travel for me. Savannah next week, then I'm heading to Nashville for the weekend with Brittany, followed by a three-day trip to San Fran. When I get back from San Fran we're off as a family to Myrtle for a week. Finally, I'm headed to Vegas at the end of June for our annual trade show. I think I'll get a bit of a break until September when we plan on taking an anniversary trip somewhere and then I'll have my final board meeting of the year in Oct/Nov. It's going to be hectic, but I'm really excited for all of the mini-adventures this year has to offer.

Next doctor visit: Early-April

Sunday, February 17, 2013

16 months




How old are babies: 16 months

How much do they weigh: E ?? C 19 lbs.15 oz

How long are they: ??

Clothes: Charlotte fits comfortably in 12-18 months but Ellie is definitely fitting better in the 18 month range.

Diapers: Size 4, day and night.

What are they eating: Some days are better than others but they generally eat pancakes and bananas and milk for breakfast; pasta, avocados, apples or melon and milk for lunch; crackers, pretzels, apples or melon for snack; and pasta, grilled cheese, cheese cubes, and fruit for dinner. Before bed they have a little bit of milk.

How are they sleeping: Ellie is a sleeping champ! I don't think she even stirs at night anymore (knock on wood). Charlotte has been a different story lately. Her first week of daycare gave her a lovely gift of a cold complete with high fever and faucet nose. The poor thing has clearly been miserable and hasn't slept much in a week. I took her to the doctor (just to make sure it hadn't made its way to her ears) and they told me it could last 10 days. So, I guess we wait...

Milestones:Their intelligence just astounds me. The other day Ellie picked up a piece of trash. I said "that's trash" and she walked over to the trash can, lifted the lid, and threw it away! Hide your keys and other valuables, folks- all is fair game. 

Major events: It's been a big month for the girls... they officially started daycare. Our amazing nanny, Crystal, got a job in her field and had to leave us. We are so sad to see her go and instead of trying to find a new Crystal, we decided it might be time to give daycare a try. Our rationale was: 1) trying to find a new nanny in a short time frame was not going to happen- it's just not something I'm willing to rush into 2) I love the socialization of daycare so the girls can get used to playing with others 3) I love the education aspect of daycare and can already see them doing things they've clearly learned at "school" 4) It just seemed like the right time to try. They're at a great age for it and I can finally wrap my mind around the concept of it. So, they're officially three days in (they missed a day due to Char's fever) and so far, so good.


Appearances: They are officially toddlers. Their hair continues to grow and grow. I pull their hair back with ponytail holders now. These poor kids are going to be so sick of me playing with their hair, but I can't help it.Char is very slender without an ounce of body fat while Ellie has typical toddler-build with an adorably-pudgy belly and chubby cheeks. Perfectly opposite.  

Personalities: I'll just sum it up by saying I have a gymnast and a stand-up comedian.I'll let you guess who is who.

Words: Words- get down (complete with hand gesture), thank you (sometimes), mama, dada, uh-oh, cracker (Ellie), Big Bird (Ellie) & Elmo (Ellie); Animal noises- dog, cat, fish (it's not really a sound- more of a kissing motion), cow, snake

Mom and Dad update: Work, work and more work. Chris has been putting in about 60 hours a week, not getting home to midnight or later some nights. I think those days are mostly behind us....or, I hope they are. I'm gearing up for my board meeting in Savannah and am working on launching an intranet in our office which I'm pretty excited about.

Next doctor visit: Early-April